First, let me ask you a few questions. What is it you seek to obtain through your spiritual life? What are the spiritual values you think are important, and how do you want to grow? Can you comfortably talk with your partner about your spiritual life?

A romantic relationship could contribute to your spiritual life, or it could hinder it. That's the way it is with everything in the world. If you seriously want to grow, then everything that looks like an obstacle can become a learning opportunity for your growth. There is no growth, in fact, without obstacles.

Do you love your partner? Do you believe that your partner listens to what you say and is someone who could support and contribute to your growth?

If you have affection for and trust in each other, then an intimate relationship could grow into a beautiful relationship that provides you with spiritual satisfaction, as well as physical and emotional satisfaction. Conflicts or clashes that develop due to differences of perspective with your partner could be stepping stones for growth that bring you more learning and wisdom.

If you feel that your partner is completely unable to understand your need for spiritual growth, and that it is difficult for you to even have a comfortable discussion with each other about such issues, then maintaining such a relationship for long will be difficult for you because it won't be able to satisfy you.

If you haven't done it yet, try taking time to have an honest discussion with your partner about different issues in your spiritual life. Through that discussion, you'll get deep insight and wisdom into your own spiritual pursuits, as well as into your relationship with your partner.